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HOW THE VOICE DIRECTLY IMPACTS OUR LIVES (Literally)

 

The human body consists of 60% water, and our blood consists of 90% water. Water has been proven to be directly affected by vibrations (energy, sound, words, etc.) Check out the work of Masaru Emoto "The Hidden Messages in Water" for some astounding examples of this phenomena.

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“Someone I know once told me ‘You can't have it all, it's just not possible. You're either successful in business/financially, or you're successful in Love/Relationships, but never both.’ I refuse to buy into this. I firmly believe that anything is possible. Besides, if everything is Love, then how could any side of this illusory token be excluded. Keep on Growing, keep on Believing, and keep on Loving no matter what!”

 

Aloha, Alexander here. I’m a professional Singer/Songwriter/Performer, Entrepreneur, and Vocal Life Coach with 20+ years experience, especially in the fields of personal development, human/spiritual consciousness, self-awareness, and self-realization among others, aka Life itself … the ultimate teacher.

 

What inspired me to create Vocal Life Coaching?

After years of performing at, attending, and even co-hosting/co-facilitating all kinds of conscious, spiritual and transformational events, from Spiritual/New Thought Venues, Workshops, Retreats and Music Festivals, plus years of supporting and working with others via Vocal Coaching, etc., it was a matter of time and almost destiny if you will, that I would heed this calling. In fact it had been calling me for some years before I started to fully listen and soften my resistance to it. I feel it would be a disservice to myself and humanity at large if I were to just horde all of the knowledge, wisdom, and life experience that I have been blessed to witness, explore, share in, learn from, and even gain through my own blood, sweat and tears.

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Struggles, Loss, Survival, and Wins … My life story in a nutshell.

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From Childhood onto the Stage … My Early Beginnings

After having a very traumatic early childhood , almost losing my father when I was 3 to a major vehicle accident when an 18 wheeler plowed into his truck full speed, crushing most of his body, claiming his right arm and almost his life … then being sexually molested by an older male cousin from the age of 5 till about 7-ish … in and out of my children’s psychiatric doctor’s office starting at age 5 … and of course surviving later childhood and my teenage years while on and off medication for depression and anxiety … becoming borderline alcoholic before I even reached my senior year in high school … I then discovered my love and gift for music, and especially singing and vocal harmonies, in my late teens. By the time I actually got clear and decided to start pursuing my musical career, my father had recently passed away.

 

Marriage, Kids, Health, Death & Divorce

I got married to my first wife fairly young and had our third daughter by the age of 25. In those same years in my very early 20’s, I started and co-founded an international conscious world fusion music band by the name of ‘Inner Voice’ (later renamed ‘here ii here’), eventually traveled and toured extensively spending loads of time away from my family, which not only affected me and them tremendously, but was also eventually a big part of the demise of my first marriage. After years of that roller coaster of a life, I pulled the plug on that very band and quit music altogether (so I thought at the time), hit the lowest low that I believe to be possible, gained the most weight I ever have in my entire life (60+ lbs overweight), was diagnosed as pre-diabetic, filed for bankruptcy, spent the next 2+ years in hospitals, ALF’s, nursing homes, and back to hospitals with my mom fighting for her life after having repeated hemorrhaging brain strokes, a major brain surgery, then spending over a full year trying to recover yet barely surviving in ICU on life support, and eventually dying after that whole devastating 3 year journey. Oh, and my older brother, which unbeknownst to the rest of us in Miami had been fighting for his life from a very rare and unexpected illness in Tampa, passed away just 1 week after my mother. Barely 2 months after my mothers and brothers passing, my now ex-wife filed for divorce. To say that I hit rock bottom is an understatement.

 

Re-Birth

Fast forward a few years, a move from Miami to Los Angeles, then back to South Florida, a finally finalized divorce that dragged out over 2 years, a few more coaching and transformational programs, a Grandmother Plant Medicine ‘Dieta’ (aka Ayahuasca) adventure that took me deep into the Amazon Rainforest of Peru, and a few attempts at new romantic relationships … I met my beautifully amazing beloved life partner and wife Sidsel. After a powerfully inspiring yet turbulent start to our relationship, we went on to start our music duo LUMIZONE, and later created our new Life Coaching modality now known as ‘Vocal Life Coaching’.

 

Conclusion

I share these so called life challenges and lows, not as a way to focus only on the negatives, as I’ve had quite a whole lot of highs and beautiful blessed moments in my life as well (in fact there has been more of these in my life), but because I’d like to illustrate the fuller spectrum of my humanness and hardships that I’ve also endured. My intention is to not only share my story with you, but to let you know that I wholeheartedly invite you into this space to be safely held, supported, seen and heard, with every aspect of your story as well, reminding us that not only are we not our stories, but also that we have the capacity to overcome and choose different and better for ourselves regardless of our past. I. Am. Here.

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